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Month: June 2008

A Day In The Life of Our Unschooling Teen

Leonie posted a day in the life of her unschooled teen. I enjoyed reading it so thought I’d ask ‘Eldest Daughter’s’ permission to write her day. Some days are similar to this and other days are completely different to this. Now she is working again, (she had to leave her other job to relocate to SA) our rhythm is changing again. It’s been fantastic to have her home with me full time and we did make the most of it knowing that she’d go back to work soon.

She awoke at 7am and did some stretching and then when straight into her morning workout. Today was resistance training using free weights. Then she made herself an omelette for breakfast. She did a quick check of her online forums and email. And yes, she can actually do a brief check, unlike me! Then, she went off to clean her room and get ready for work. She then came out and did some research reading on the subject of coffee and beans and then wrote on her blog about it. This of course, led to her experimenting with our machine to get the ‘perfect crema’ from the espresso. While she was there she made the rest of us cappuccino’s and hot chocolate for the boys while we sat and talked about…coffee! We were talking about making our own blends and what particular roasts are good to blend.

Then it was time to go to work. She starts at 12pm but we needed to zip over to the coffee shop and buy some freshly roasted beans…I dropped her off at work a few minutes early so we had 15 minutes to sit for and talk. This was a short chat but we girls can get straight to the heart of the matter, discussing emotionally deep and personal issues. I love these chats and she loves to hear my thoughts on things and she mostly wants to hear what the Bible has to say on the many things that go through her mind. Today she has a 4 hour shift so she’ll finish at 4pm. While on the way back home I got a call from the school. ‘Younger daughter’ isn’t well and I stop off at the school to pick the poor poppit up and bring her home.

Meanwhile, the boys had tended to their morning chores and did some reading and while I was zipping ‘Eldest Daughter’ to work they found the family tent and set it up. This is a large tent and it took them awhile but they want to ‘camp out’ tonight. 🙂 So Younger Daughter and I arrived home – we all regroup and then have lunch. (1pm)

(4.30pm) John (dh) picked ‘Eldest Daughter’up while on his way home from work and they arrive home by 5pm, by which time I have the cappuccino machine ready to pour all the coffee’s and we sit together and discuss everyone’s day. ‘Eldest Daughter’ does another quick check of her email & Internet (and is totally excited as she receives an email from a good friend who wants to come and stay for a few days- a friend from Brisbane. She responds excitedly) Then she helps with setting the table and meal preparation, all the while involved in family discussion. Our tea times are always loud and rowdy with most of us giving our opinion on anything and everything. I was fairly organised so there wasn’t an awful mess to clean up after tea. All the children contribute toward cleaning up. This is great but it’s awfully noisy!

After tea, ‘Eldest Daughter’ popped on the treadmill and did a 30min cardio workout. She listened to some praise music while running and then comes out to tell me some thoughts she’s been having about a scripture. Then she sat with me and we watched some TV while surfing the ‘net on her laptop. She’s heavily researching and learning about coffee and barista work as this is an area she wants to go further in. She is tinkering with the idea of one day opening up her own coffee shop. She talks to me incessantly about her dreams, ideas and passions. We laugh together at the sometimes corniness of it all…but it’s what we do. It’s what makes us have such a close relationship. We live together, laugh together, dream together and sometimes, cry together.

She headed off to bed with a good book (she’s on book 5 in the Gods and Kings series). Problem is; she often stays awake until the early hours reading these good books! But these books have been such a source of inspiration and knowledge…we speak about it frequently and share our learning from these books.

‘Eldest Daughter’ is mostly self managed but she likes me to be involved. I don’t mind because I know that she is an independent learner and capable person but she simply *likes* to have me around. Today she didn’t do any fitness reading and writing but on another day she will. She also didn’t do any of the Business Maths that she has on the go but she will at another time. Another day she will do Bible study and/or cook a family meal or go and do the shopping or help me with the housework or do some work with the boys. Each day is different but is packed with learning activities. Her days simply don’t look like a structured schooly system…but I know she is learning and she knows it too. It works well for her and for us as a family. The day doesn’t sound that interesting or exciting and truth is, it probably isn’t. It’s the relationships within the day that make it all worthwhile…the manner in which she lives her day- full of purpose, knowing that she is operating in and developing her passions and God given talents, while strengthening her weaknesses. I’ve found that over the course of the semester or the year she delves into most, if not all, subject areas. She has grown as a person, as a daughter of the King. And in the end, we’re all thankful for the ability and opportunity to be home-based-learners.

What about you? Care to share a day in the life of your teen? (With their permission, of course)

‘Eldest Daughter’ is 17
‘Younger daughter’ is 15 and a half
Boys are 13 and 10

Missing in Action

Yes, I truly have been Missing In Action. In other words, I’ve been living a full, rich life and had plenty to write about but little time to actually write!

My Dad came to visit me and stayed with us for a few weeks. I haven’t seen him for nearly two years and I missed him terribly. It was so wonderful to connect (IRL) with him again. He drove back to Broken Hill and then he popped in for breakfast one morning!!!! What a fantastic surprise. He was helping a friend move house and had an overnight stop over in Adelaide so he popped in for pancakes with lemon and sugar for breakfast (Courtesy of ‘Miss A’ , who makes the fluffiest, yummiest pancakes). I have really missed these sort of informal drop-ins by family while we’ve been interstate.

John took me out for an evening a few weeks ago. We went to see the Paul Potts live in concert. I have been a fan of Paul Potts since I first saw on youtube. The concert was even better than the CD so if you get a chance to see him live, it’s a better experience. The man may not be a Christian but I see a humility and attitude of gratitude in him and his wife.

‘Miss R’ has settled well into school. She did a week of work experience at a hair dressing salon, which she enjoyed very much. Other young girls went to fashionable, funky salon’s but as we had just moved ‘Miss R’ couldn’t be choosy and had to take what she could get. Well it all turned out for the best as a dear lady took her in and as they were short of workers ‘Miss R’ had lots or opportunity to experience things that the other kids her age didn’t.

‘Miss A’ was applying for jobs all over the place. She got herself at job at a cafe a few miles away. She had a two week trial period as a barista and while she would have stayed there, it wasn’t what she really wanted. She just kept putting it before the Lord. Well, on the very last day of her trial period, a new coffee shop opened up at the village mall only 3kms away from us!!!! She applied and they employed her- all within a matter of hours! She is now employed as a barista in a speciality coffee shop (No, not GJ’s…much better ). The have given her a fair bit of room to be creative with her latte art and have paid for a further training course where she went to be trained by professionals and learned more about coffee cherries, beans and roasting. The employers are fully supportive of her softball, which is all the more amazing. Praise the Lord! I can see more and more how much our home-based-learning lifestyle has enabled ‘Miss A’ to pursue her passions and subsequently excel at them. She has learned so much about life through a home-based education.

The boys have been engaging in heaps of real-life learning. They’ve been pottering on with their ACE paces although John was bored with his SOSE paces and considering that he reads so much historical fiction, I have allowed him to read good, living books instead. We are currently learning about Ancient Rome so he is reading through If you’re not familiar with the book, you might like to check out this homeschool review. He is also reading many other books set around this period. We have started a read aloud which is my second time. I read it aloud to the girls so it must be good for me to do it again. The Bronze Bow by Elizabeth George Speare is a great read for boys or girls.

John has been tending to his lessons but he’d rather do anything physical than sit down to bookwork. He will mow lawns, clean the car, exercise, do dishes, you-name-it, he’ll-do-it rather than write with a pen! However, he’s continuing to practice composition and writing. Shhhh, don’t tell him that it is a part of formal lessons. He is teaching himself a whole new language as well – PERL. No, he hasn’t taken up knitting. It is a computer language. While I learn HTML, CSS and PHP, he likes to try his hand is designing games. So he borrowed a book from the library and has been intensely teaching himself this new language. He is practising all the necessary learning skills – reading, writing, taking notes, narrating, processing information, while practising keyboard skills. But the best thing is that this is all independent learning! He is totally self directed in this project.

Last week I had to attend a meeting in the city so we all piled into the car and dropped ‘Miss A’ at work and ‘Miss R’ at school and then the boys and I popped into a fresh roasted coffee bean store before heading off to spend a few hours at both the Adelaide Art Gallery and the Museum before heading to Koorong Christian bookstore. While there, I picked up our reserved copy of the DVD, Hadassah: One Night with the King. ‘Miss A’ and I read the book over a year ago and have been waiting impatiently for the DVD to arrive in Australia. If you’ve been studying the book of Esther, you’ll like this movie tie-in. If you’ve read the book by Tommy Tenny, you might be a little disappointed in the movie- I don’t know. Drop me a line and let me know what you thought of it.

Another book that I bought and have started is called The Story by Murray Watts. It looks very good. It’s similar to The Book of God: The Bible as a Novel by Walter Wangerin which the girls and I enjoyed but it seems a little shorter and a tad simpler in literary style.

We have been doing a basic study on the nature of God, which I will upload to my website, one day…after I’ve uploaded the outline of my talk at the SA HSing seminar.

John (DH) had to go to Sydney for an ill family member who was hospitalised so we had an emotionally draining fortnight throughout all that. The family member has recovered but is in need of further medical treatment so your prayers would be most appreciated. God knows the need.

I’ve been having dreadful migraine headaches, which is not a usual occurrence for me. maybe it’s too much coffee…maybe it’s other lifestyle issues, I don’t know. But they have been constant and quite debilitating. I will be adjusting my lifestyle next week and going off coffee and drinking more water, so I hope that will help. Meantime, I’ve been working steadily on my new project – yes, an interactive website for the Australian homeschool community. I’ll write more about that soon.

Life has been so busy, rich and full. Like an online friend, Marbel said,

Whenever I find myself blogging, or thinking of blogging, frequently, I find… the rest of my life diminishing. When I blog about reading, I’m not reading. When I blog about homeschooling, I’m not homeschooling.

Total Invasion of Priivacy

Sad, horrid, gross invasion of privacy and so much more…go and read the full article at the Brisbane Courier Mail

A PHOTO of every state school student will be posted online by the Government, sparking fears pedophiles could use the database.

The intranet database, dubbed OneSchool, will profile each of the state’s 480,000 public school students enrolled from Prep to Year 12.

Photographs, personal details, career aspirations, off-campus activities and student performance records are being collected from all 1251 state schools.

Education Queensland said details of 180,000 students from 637 schools already were online and the database would be completed by December.

About 80,000 students are expected to be added to the internal education department database each year.